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Reply to "I can't sleep: what's going on in your relationship? Anything you want to unload about?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're in a pretty challenging stretch right now, mainly because he's so checked out. My plan had been to take this year and really work on myself to see to what extent the issues in our marriage really were me, vs. him/the marriage, and then decide what to do about the marriage going forward. Reading the other thread about lies people tell themselves when divorcing, though, has me reconsidering. I can't change him or force him to engage with the family, but I have the means to make myself happy in our home and with our kids, and he can basically be the roommate. If at some point he wakes up and realizes he wants to be part of the family, we will welcome him with open arms, but in the meantime we'll be happy on our own.[/quote] I don't think real happiness is possible in this situation. [/quote]
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