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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I pushed my DH for a third with the two older ones same age as yours. I was also 38. Luckily, we now have a beautiful healthy happy 9 month old and the entire family is so in love with her. Especially DH. 
That said, it could have easily gone differently. I know I took a huge risk. But she is the best thing ever. 
DH loves her so much he has mentioned a 4th. 
I am mandating a vasectomy ASAP. :)
Also I work and we have a great nanny. Money a non-issue. 
If finances are a concern, totally different discussion. 
[b]Your girls will surely be in love with a new baby[/b] - that I can pretty much guarantee you. [/quote]

And this is more important than her husband's repeated statements that he doesn't want a third child?

Sometimes women amaze me. Next someone will suggest she have an "oops" baby on purpose.  :roll: [/quote]

I don't care for the dismissal of "women," but I agree that it's a terrible idea for OP to push her husband to have another child. Awful. My father didn't want any of his children. To say the least, that had a negative effect on our lives.[/quote]

I'm the woman who wrote that, and I'm not dismissing all women. I'm sorry if it came across that way. I just don't understand why some women urge others to "go for it" when the husband in question has clearly said he doesn't want another child. [/quote]

A few women have said that. Many more have urged her not to have another child. I don't know why you'd say that the first position is characteristic of "women". 
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My point is that it is always women who urge this. I guess I should have written that "some women amaze me." [/quote]

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