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If he hasn't already. Players can never leave the game for long.[/quote]

Exactly.  Just like cheaters.[/quote]

No. Sounds like both of y'all got screwed over from a player and a cheater. Lots of people do dumb things. Especially in their younger days. You could be missing out on a lot of potentially good people. Unless they have a sex addiction, I wouldn't be so quick to judge people and assume they can't change. (With the obvious caveat being that you can't change them.)

Also, someone who refers to themselves as a "player" and being "in the game"...I'd be more worried about their douchebaggery talking like that than screwing around with multiple women. The guys I know just say they don't want to settle down, are having to much fun dating several girls, like not having to put in effort to one person, etc. They aren't talking like they're part of a rap song.

He took on my kids as his own and wants to financially support us so I can stay home and we can have more kids when we're married (after a divorce where I was a SAHM...this idea is something I'm resisting). That's a lot to take on when he could just be banging single girls, particularly ones with no baggage, like an ex-husband and kids. But, time will tell. We'll see if my reformed "player" goes back to his old ways. [/quote]

Based on your first post your fiance doesn't sound like a player at all. Just like a single guy. To call someone a player there has to be some level of lies and manipulation- he wasn't calling anyone his girlfriend so he really wasn't doing anything wrong. 
A man who relates to women by lying to them and juggling several as a lifestyle choice is a different beast.
This is why I hate the term 'player'. So many women think that just because a man didn't want them, he must be a player and that is often not the case at all.[/quote]

It doesn't have to involve lies, just manipulation and misleading a woman into believing he cares about her. A lot of players lie by omitting things instead of telling specific lies.

From Urban Dictionary:
A male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex. Possibly derived from the phrases "play him for a fool", or "play him like a violin". The term was popularized by hip-hop culture, but was commonly recognized among urban American blacks by the 1970s. [/quote]

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