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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]if your green card is not "through marriage" but through employer, then why is it not valid if you divorce? Is your husband sponsoring you in some way? Is it through HIS employer, and that's why it would be invalidated?

what are your chancres of getting a green card if you divorce? if you stay married, what is the timeline?  Perhaps you can work on some of t his with a lawyer and negotiate with him, using his responsibility for child support and possibly alimony against your need for the green card to come up with a working solution.

Does he want to have any relationship with his child????

I would not move out until you have some legal agreement in place. Are you renting? How is your financial picture? [/quote]

It's thru HIS employer. NO chance if we divorce. If married, hopefully around 2 yrs, but there's no guarantee.
Negotiating with him is not a good idea  -he immediately sees "blackmail", goes on offensive and such. 
We both know that if we divorce, he might end up with high payments, but I will lose status and it's expensive and complicated to enforce court orders across borders. Lose lose situation for both. 
I am now looking for a lawyer with experience in international custody and child support just to get a picture of my options. But there aren't many, I am pretty sure. I happen to fall through the cracks of the system. [/quote]

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