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Reply to "Have a 2 mo old and told to move out."
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[quote=Anonymous]He can't make you leave. He'd have to evict you. In VA, that would take months, minimum. He'd be in trouble if he attempted to change the locks or otherwise tried to evict you without being told he has the legal right to do so. So logistically, don't even concern yourself with leaving. Move into the babies room. Stop engaging him and be civil. Act as though you're a single parent with a roommate at this point, because that's what you may end up as soon anyway. Also doesn't hurt if you're breastfeeding and doing all the parenting. And if you contributed financially to the house, there will be a record of that. So, again, you're not screwed there either. There are really only 2 things I'd be worried about if I were you: do you have enough money to support yourself on your own and how are you going to cope with leaving the baby with him? It won't be a lot of time at first. But it will increase as the baby gets older. And to the judgmental assholes...you really don't think this happens to married people? That's laughable. The only difference here is it won't have to cost them thousands and thousands of dollars in legal fees if they want to break up.[/quote]
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