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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds like a tough way to live OP. I second what the PP said about everyone not looking at you that closely; people are usually wrapped up in themselves.

Also  I don't know if this will help, but one thing to realize is that even if you do commit a faux pas, or a friend is angry with you, or someone thinks you said something stupid, it ultimately doesn't matter. You want people to think well of you but if someone doesnt- so what? They can't actually hurt you. If your current friends don't like you you can make new ones, you aren't stuck.

Read these forums for a while. What one person finds tacky another person thinks nothing of doing. Who is right? Well, it just depends on who is in your circle. Depends on how they feel that day. There is no absolute right or wrong. You'll never be perfect to everyone, and you'll never please everyone.

Please know that I'm not saying that your friends actually don't like you- I'm sure they do! Just that making a mistake or even someone thinking poorly of you isn't the end of the world.[/quote]well said![/quote]

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