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[quote=Anonymous]OP Im sorry you're going through this. There may be many reasons for her lack of interest, and it might well be her "fault"  entirely and not worth your effort, but I commend you for trying to work on this and asking for advice. Id change the approach a bit and instead of talking to her about it, or even doing counseling, I would do actions and not words. Book a sitter or relative one night for the kids and take her to a hotel or even a weekend away in a place she likes. Buy her nice lingerie, use flattering words like you can't wait to see her in that outfit tonight, or something like that. Make her feel wanted, desired and special. Little things can make a difference: text messages during the day saying you want to cuddle tonight and watch a movie after kids are in bed, or a massage or whatever she likes. There was a time I was overwhelmed and depressed and checked out of my relationship with DH, and things like this would have meant a lot to me. If your efforts have no results, then it's time to reevaluate what really is going on with her. [/quote]

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