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[quote=Anonymous]In the prior posts, a couple of folks mention not liking it if DH spends attention elsewhere or flirting/being flirted with by others and enjoying his company when he's pleasant. I think it bears mentioning that what we find attractive in a person is not always the same as what we find pleasant and likable. It might be that with some couples, the guy has to sacrifice the friendliness for attractiveness in order to keep the marriage strong and sexually active. It's a balancing act. For example, in some couples, the guy successfully flirting with another woman might piss off his wife, but might also motivate her and/or trigger a dynamic like the one where the kid suddenly wants to play with a long-ignored toy because she sees another kid playing with it. [/quote]
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