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[quote=Anonymous]I am a DW in this situation. For me, I am so turned off by how negative my husband is--he nags the kids and I continually about little things, he is unnecessarily strict with our small children, he rarely gives compliments to me or to them. He is forever calling the kids over to explain this and that, which they find tiresome even if it's meant kindly. He has a lot of minor health problems that he complains about, but doesn't go to the doctor or work out. For example, if I say, I think I'm coming down with a cold, he'll say, "I've felt like that for weeks! I TOLD you I had a cold and you just ignored me!" Like I'm not allowed to feel sick without him describing how it's so much worse for him.  I think he's hoping that complaining will get me and them to pay attention to him, but it has the opposite effect; we all feel relieved when he is traveling or out of the house.

When he relaxes and has fun, we all enjoy his company. But I am sick and tired of trying to tiptoe around and get him to unwind and be pleasant, so I mostly avoid him when I can. It's seriously screwed up.[/quote]

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