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[quote=Anonymous]You need to read up on cognitive distortions. You're overgeneralizing and jumping to conclusions that if you can't afford renovations it means you are a failure at life. Money and rental property improvements are not your whole life. Stop calling yourself a failure. Just don't give them the key next time. It sounds codependent like they are trying to rescue you. If you feel like a failure, maybe they are picking up on that, which makes them try to help more. If you don't want help, then set more boundaries and speak to them as if you don't need help.[/quote]
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