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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am curious. What type of surgery did you have that you feel entitled to have her cancel her plans and stick around to help? Perhaps that is why she left, because she figured thats all she'd have to do all weekend.

I feel sorry for her. [/quote]

[b]I wonder why you're sorry for her[/b]. Is it for her living rent free? Is it for her not paying for food or utilities? 
Is it for all the outings we take her with us? Is for the fact that she doesn't pay for tutors because we help her with her English lessons, homework and papers for school?

I cooked in advance and froze the food, paid her to clean the house so the only help I needed was someone to keep an eye on the kids so I could nap or take a shower while DH works. But I guess it's too much to ask for. [/quote]

It was me who said that, and I feel sorry for the fact she has to put up with someone who sounds controlling and entitled. Sounds possibly like you are not happy with the situation. Where is your husband in all this? It is the weekend, why cant he help you out? How old are your kids? why do you need to have the kids watched while you shower? Shower while they nap, or play quietly. Shower with the bathroom door open. it kills me these moms who seem to need someone to watch the kid while they shower. I never had the luxury nor did i hire anyone to come watch the kids while i showered. Ridiculous. Nap when the kids nap. [/quote]

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