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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here thanks I strangely feel better sharing this with someone.   The presentation went fine.

I know its not my fault.    It is a choice to cheat.   Any problems in my marriage are joint, I play a role and so does he.  We have had problems and ups and downs like most and yet I never cheated.   However, it is not on me what he choose to do next.  If you are hungry and go to Safeway and steal, it is still wrong.  I think its a coward's way out to just try to find someone else.

Part of me thinks he maybe wanted me to see it?  Who would be that stupid to text wife instead of love interest.   I am grateful I didn't have to suffer not knowing.

Thanks for support.[/quote]

Op- just went through this last spring (16 year marriage). I think mine wanted to get caught too.

Ignore the haters that will try to assign 100% blame to you.

I was still having sex with DH.  He wanted variety (as in other women)--it wasn't anything I wasn't doing. I am very fit, attractive, work--and frankly the wife that is hit on by all of the neighbors.

I think there was a bit of a mid-life crisis and ennui going on.  You need total transparency and a good marriage counselor.

Be careful who you confide in.  I didn't tell anyone full details. I only told one super trustworthy relative we were having trouble but not the cheating part.

Until you know what you will do- play it close to the chest.  There is a lot you need to know.  There is a lot you needs to assess.  And--make him get a full battery if STD tests and provide a copy to you.

Sorry. Good luck.[/quote]

So from what you've written, PP, are we to assume that you stayed in your marriage?[/quote]

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