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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP,

I've been in your shoes.  You're doing great.  A couple of thoughts to share:

1) Just focus on what you need to do to make it through the holidays.

2) Don't make any big decisions right now.  Just figure out your options and the ramifications of each one.  Think about what it would mean to stay together.  What does it mean to divorce or separate?

3) Definitely talk to a lawyer and a counselor/therapist.  The lawyer can guide you through the legal process.  The therapist will help you figure out what makes sense for you and your family.

4) Your kids are your top priority and your DH is their father.  You won't win any points, at any time, bashing him to them.  You don't sound like you're someone who needs to hear that but it's worth saying.

I am with you - I think it's cowardly as shit to cheat.  And for me, my ex was out of my house in 5 days and  left the marriage with nothing except his car, his clothes and personal effects.  And anything else that I didn't want to see again.  I don't regret a single one of my actions but it took me a long time to heal.  I basically turned off my emotions and just functioned in a hyper-methodical way. That worked well for me.

If you just take it one day at a time, you'll figure out the best course for you and your kids.

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