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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hire a lawyer who regularly handles contested family law matters, and get a first meeting asap. Keep a journal- you'll soon forget facts. Have your lawyer write him a letter to vacate the family home. Don't let the fact that the holidays are coming up be used as a ploy to stay together. Get counseling. Confide in 1-2 close family or friend (mom, best friend) - you will need emotional support and also help with the kids during the holidays especially[/quote] His lawyer will advise him to NOT leave the family home. I always tell men this. It's abandonment and will affect custody. Most men expect 50% joint custody.[/quote] Barring abuse or drug and alcohol problems or mental health problems, the custody should be joint. Both parents should participate in raising the kids and in the decision making. You divorce your husband. Your kids don't divorce their father. [/quote] True, but also true that when you cheat on your spouse, in a way you're cheating your kids too.[/quote]
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