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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's hard for me to figure out what she did.  Her telephone behavior was bad?  She was passive aggressive?  I can't really put my finger on it.

The real betrayal here is your husband, no?  It seems to me that you are unwilling to say so.[/quote]

My understanding is that DH told her about the pregnancy in a certain unplanned context, was going to tell me he had done so and then did not at the behest of his mother.[/quote]

Eesh. So he lied to you because his mom asked him too?  That is bad.  I wouldn't necessarily trust her as much after that, but the only way forward is polite and civil, not close, and let yourself build back up some feelings of goodwill for her over time.

My MIL asked DH to lie to me once over something big--he didn't--and I have never forgotten that.[/quote]

Thanks, yeah.  The DH thing is the bigger piece, for sure.

So no point in trying to address it with her, just polite and civil, and not close?  Thank you for the concrete advice.  I sincerely appreciate it.[/quote]

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