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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - the last few visits have become so outrageous that it caused serious arguments between DH and me. We finally had a talk (not our first, but the most serious) about the issue. That is why this visit will only be 7 days. What I'm saying is this is already as good as it's going to get. I'm so anxiety-ridden about this that I can't think about anything else. I guess I don't understand how everyone else who has IL problems and whose ILs live out of town deals with visits. Am I just not thinking about this right? MIL wants to be treated as a guest but simultaneously wants to be in charge. I wish I could take the kids and go away for the week.[/quote] Your husband is the problem. Go to therapy and figure out why he is prioritizing his parents over you. Stop whining and demand better treatment and FTLOG, tell you husband to inform his parents that they'll be staying in a hotel until they learn to respect boundaries. [/quote]
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