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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I resent being called a victim or martyr. I cannot say they can't with us or that they can't stay for a week. This is already whittled down from last year's 10 day stay. I asked once 9 years ago if they could stay in a hotel when I had our DD and that ended in an epic fight. They of course states at our house anyway. [b]My MIl is incredibly selfish. [/b]

Btw, she knows what time the kids get up and open presents. They've been alive for 9 years but she needs her sleep she says. But you're right. My kids don't need to shush for her. I will try to stick to our schedule but it really is difficult bc they aren't independent and guilt DH about flying from CA and being neglected. [/quote]

Yes, you can say they can't stay with you. Do they own the home you are living in? Do they have a gun to your head? They are jerks and who cares if there is an epic fight. Walk away from the fight. Don't participate.

I think the real issue is your  incredibly selfish dh.[/quote]

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