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Reply to "adopting a baby that probably has FAS"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There will always be a ton on unknowns both with this child and with your own life. The child may develop issues down the road. You may or may not meet Mr. Right and you may or may not meet him in time to have kids. You may or may not be able to have kids if and when a spouse is in the picture. I think you just have to decide whether you can and want to handle this right now. If you have family that can provide back-up support, that would be a big plus in the decision making process. Also, if your sister was employed, she may have had some life insurance which could help (though that depends on who she put down as a beneficiary).[/quote] +1 Mr. Right will come along whether or not your nephew is in your life. If you meet someone who can't handle the issues this child may have, they aren't right for you. You can't know the future or whether your own biological children may have issues down the road. Do what you feel you can handle with your family. If you can manage it, he'll be lucky to have you.[/quote]
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