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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Personally, I think it's because taking the meds amounts to admitting their child has actual issues and just isn't brilliant and bored and if they teacher just realized their kid's brilliance, blah, blah, blah. [/quote] I think parents who rely on meds as their first option are lazy and aren't up to parenting a creative, smart kid with behavior challenges. [/quote] [b]I am an adult with ADD whose mother had a sanctimonious smug attitude just like yours. Unfortunately for me and your kid, ADD is a neurological condition, not an excess of creativity or intelligence, and no amount of super sanctimommy "parenting" will rewire the brain. Would you try to "parent" the diabetes out of your kid? [/b] [b]Medications have completely changed my life [/b]and I will never forgive my mom for prioritizing her sanctimony over my need to function. But hey, she was able to tell the other mommies exactly what you've said above... Hope it was worth it for her.[/quote] I think you are lazy, too.[/quote] NP here. I am in the exact same boat as the first PP, although I'm old enough that meds weren't really even in wide use when I was a kid. But I know I could have benefited, in so, so many ways, if I had gotten on them earlier. You think I'm lazy, I think you're ignorant and pathetic. Hopefully you care as little about what I think as I do about what you think, and we can both go on living our lives. Happy Thanksgiving! [/quote]
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