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[quote=Anonymous]We did two different conselors and it made things worse. What did work is that I went to individual and figured out why I was putting up with that crap and learning strategies to figure out what I wanted, how to set up safe boundaries and being ready to follow up if he did not respect them. After a year, I am so much stronger, and happier and my husband and I are much happier too. One of the thing I realized in my therapy is that husband had to stop drinking, and he had to go for pysch eval and keep up with treatment. Or I was gone. I was newly strong from the therapy and he knew I meant it. He stopped drinking and he got help for his issue and he remains stable on medication. Not sure if your situation is a dire as mine but please please put yourself and your kids first and the rest will work out. Another side benefit, I started feeling so good that I actually lost the 40 extra pounds I had gained. Good luck.[/quote]
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