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[quote=Anonymous]I am writing this with 100% sincerity, so don't get all defensive because this may not be what you want to here.

You are in some ways delusional.  And I think every person has found themselves in a situation in their lifetime where they were too.  You've convinced yourself that you are so important to this guy that you are justifying his insane behavior,  "but he calls me all the time. He says I am so important to him.  He isn't happy with his current partner, he need to talk to me about her and everything else....."

Go back and read, out loud even, all the things you've posted, and change the facts to if this was a friend who was a girl.  Would you remain available and a friend to a female friend who called you all the time, that treated you badly like your break up situation, that lied to you over and over again making you look like such a fool.  Because you say his ex is just a friend, so why would you be friends with someone like that?

I think everyone knows a guy like this, whether he was your own ex or an ex of a friend.  They all have the same MO.  He doesn't love you, he doesn't, and he doesn't even respect you, as a person much less a friend.  He cheated on you and lied when you were together, he started dating the OW, he strung you along with all these daily phone calls, probably keeping you from dating anyone else (are you single now), he is lying to you about being engaged, etc.  poor you and poor her. My friend who is like this, cheated on all his ladies  and then found a great woman, they got engaged 2 months after dating. She was suspicious, but said yes and insisted on a year long engagement.  They get married, quickly pop out Irish twins.  Then two years after that (not even four years married) he wants a divorce.  She finds put he's been having tons of affairs, with exes and random people, been going to bars without his wedding ring and going home with people.  And he gave her an STD.  And one year after the divorce, he's already remarried!

You are young, you have so much time to meet someone else.  Walk away, cut ties, all of them.  He is a liar isn't healthy for,you.  I wish you the best.[/quote]

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