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[quote=Anonymous]You are so focused on why he is lying but it's almost irrelevant, because there is no true justification for it that would make his behavior even remotely acceptable. He cheated on you after six years, pursued a relationship with one one else and cheated on her with you (yes, talking three times a day and asking for pics is an affair). He is lying tooth of you because he is not a true friend or partner and puts his own needs and well being above both of yours.

If he's with her but calling you several times a day and asking you for pics, are you REALLY surprised that he's lying to you in this way? He has already shown you just who he is again and again but you are having a very hard time looking at the situation objectively, but we are in the outside looking in and see it plain as day, which may be why we are wringing our hands a bit.

He must be really, really good at creating a false intimacy with you but it's not based on true live or respect or trust.
If he were your true friend he would be out for your best interest, but he wants you both and will do whatever it takes to keep you both, no matter how much it might hurt you. Can you not see that the easy answer to your question is that he is lying to you because he is a liar, a cheat and a selfish, uncaring a-hole?

Ask yourself what you REALLY want out of this relationship, and what you've been getting out of it that's so hard to giv up. Ask yourself why you're surprised by any of this. Stop focusing on HIM and figure out what's going on in your own head and heart -- that will be the first step in extricating yourself from this toxic relationship (and that is exactly what it is, even if you can't see it).[/quote]

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