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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the troubles with this sort of divided accounting occur when parents don't make equal amounts and/or when one parent spends a lot more than the other.

[b]Once you have kids and all the expenses that come with it, having divided accounts becomes complicated. What if you buy diapers along with some make up for on amazon? Do you have to divide the bill? 
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Personally, I would make sure that each parent has maxed out retirement contributions, but then put the rest in joint accounts.[/quote]

No. That comes from the joint accounts. Did you actually read the thread? [/quote]

Did you read the post? Why would make up come out of the joint account?

BTW, I agree with the PP that the parent who quits work, reduces to part time, or doesn't actively seek promotions because of childcare--and this is usually the mother--often is the one who is hurt by the divided bills.[/quote]

It's not that serious. I can't speak for others, but we certainly don't nickel and dime each other and item everything. There are an awful lot of projections and assumptions in this thread. My DH makes double what I do. He doesn't come to me on the first of the month and say "your half of the mortgage is X."

And to a different PP, why do you assume DHs are forcing their wives into anything? That says a lot more about you than us.

Do I cease to be an individual when I get married? I like having my own account. I like buying my DH's birthday and Xmas gifts out of it. I know it was my treat, and I can surprise him because he won't see the bill. I like buying stuff on a whim if I want, knowing our bills and savings are already covered. Basically, whatever is left is fun money.

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