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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's very supportive to hear my English is not so bad, at least my writing is :). Thanks, PPs.

DH is not an attorney. He hate reading, he won't be one. But I do feel like I was being questioned by a lawyer or policeman when having a serious talk. Although I may not do anything wrong, he make me feel like I did.

Now that you mention work, I just realize there are always issues with the people at his workplace. Although he mostly did not work as a team but eventually he hate someone there and calls it a quick. He changes his jobs like every few years because he can't stand the people or the way the boss runs the business. It makes no sense, it's stupid, others are quitting, people are treated poorly, etc.

PP@21:16. It's a good question. I don't know why I didn't say anything like that. I guess the way he talk makes me feel like it is my fault so I just sit there and admit it passively. There is one thing I didn't mention. I don't know if it matters.[b] I can't look at him when we talk.[/b] I just can't (I don't do it normally with other people) and keep looking down like I did something bad and being punished. [b]I tried but whenever I see his eyes,  it feels very uncomfortable and I just have to look down or look away.[/b] [/quote]

Whoa. You are obviously intimated by your husband. I don't have any advice, but I am a much more confrontational person. Perhaps a therapist can help you. I'm sure your husband is not the only person in your life that you submit to. Maybe your parents made you submissive?
Is your husband from the country of Georgia?[/quote]

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