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[quote=Anonymous]'K Haters.  Step back.

OP, if you want to know whether her behavior rises to the level of abuse, read Patricia Evans's books on verbally abusive behavior.  Although the books assume the abuser is male, she says straight out that women can abuse, too.  And yes most people with BDP tend to be women, except for physically abusive men, murderers and serial killers.  BPD  is incredibly hard to change.

I recommend you figure out what you have in terms of a relationship with YOUR OWN individual therapist.  I was in an abusive relationship.  I also endured couples counseling where everything was twisted against me.  So I know exactly what you mean.

Get some professional help and make some decisions.  Even if your wife is not technically abusive, you cannot keep doing this to yourself.  Get help before you end up like me earlier this  - suicidal with people threatening to hospitalize me.  Abuse can wear you down that much.  Stop before you get there, OP.  Be kind to yourself.  Sending positive thoughts your way.[/quote]

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