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[quote=Anonymous]OP, here's the thing. And before someone calls me out on the fact that you're a man, this really is not a gender issue. The thing is, you've stated the following: "My wife constantly puts me down, points out faults, makes passive aggressive statements and in general puts me through an emotional roller coaster." Okay, I accept that all as true and that's not a healthy relationship. BUT, IS IT ABUSE? I don't know, OP. Many, many couples, many partners, nitpick, find fault, are passive aggressive, and live with an intense amount of fighting. That's what I call an unhealthy relationship. A bad match. To know whether you are being emotionally ABUSED, I would have to hear that your wife is really, truly, victimizing you. Not just being unpleasant and difficult. That's not abuse. We are not guaranteed a pleasant spouse 24/7 and it's not abuse when your spouse is passive/aggressive. Again, this isn't a male/female thing. I'm just calling it as I see it.[/quote]
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