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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm curious why he was so angry to drop your kids off.   Isn't that what a parent is supposed to do?  Or was the situation such that he felt you were being lazy or something?

Not saying "shoving" was acceptable...not at all.[/quote]

Some parents don't want the responsibility of parenting.  I have a 6 week old, and so far my husband has only touched him to pick him up for photos in the hospital.  He has not touched him for over 5 weeks, refuses to help at all overnight, refuses to change a diaper or feed him or give me a break of any kind.  He wanted the baby so f'n bad, said he would help and be a great father.  It was all just a total lie. He tells me I'm lazy because I'm falling behind on the household chores.  I just don't understand what is going on with him.  This is not what I signed up for or what I was expecting.  I was expecting him to help parent, but apparently it is too much for him. [/quote]

I'm so sorry PP.  Parenting is damn hard, but he's a grown up.  He needs to be an adult.  This is not the 1950's.

There was a show on tv a while ago, I think it was called the Baby Borrowers or something, where teens had to take care of a baby (not newborn) or toddler.  There was a professional nanny in the house with them, off camera, to step in if warranted, and the parents saw everything on camera but in a different house, and they could step in if they felt the need. But basically, the teens had to take care of the kids by themselves for x # of days (can't remember).  Anyway, I feel like *every* person needs to go through this so they know how damn hard parenting is.  This would probably reduce the population :).  They cancelled that show, but I thought it was a really great show.[/quote]

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