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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Cassiopeia][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

We met via our daughters.. And she is also in a strange marriage.  [/quote]

Go onnnnnnnn[/quote]

I would prefer not to go into detail... I feel very lucky to have had her in my life for the last 2+ years.  I am a happier person.[/quote]

You're also fooling yourself.[/quote]

Fooling himself how?  I think after two years he knows if he's really happy.

His home life seems so dismal. I honestly don't understand how guys put up with that kind of situation for the sake of their kids. I mean, are you sure it's not at least partially because you still love your wife?  Are you planning to leave when the kids are grown?  To me that seems so much more destructive to everyone involved. I wonder how many guys who say they'll leave when the kids are grown actually do it. [/quote]

He's fooling himself about the quality of the relationship. Even after two years, it's a relationship in secret, while they each carry on their mundane day-to-day lives separately. Sure, someone can be wonderful when you only see them to relax and have sex, without any of the real-life crap that comes with that. If they were to both end the marriages to be together, there's a good chance this relationship would end up just like his marriage, and then it would be all about how she did this and she withheld that and he's a victim, because he has zero self-awareness of his role in the state of his current marriage. Any relationship can be wonderful when you're only together for the good stuff.[/quote]

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