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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What caused her to check out?[/quote]

The main issue is that I do not think that she really loved me or had real passion for me when we got married 20+ years ago.  Our sexlife has been sad.  She had never initiated.  It has been 10 years since we had sex.  She never shows any form of affection towards me.  We have been roommates and coparents.  She really checked out after the first child was born and then told me that she wanted another one.  I saw the warning signs but I always thought that she would return to her normal self.  It seems like her normal self is very close to being nonaffectionate towards me and asexual or she just does not love me.

I really enjoy sex but only when I am with someone that I really care about.  My AP is amazing and together we are amazing.  We are in our forties and feels like we are in our twenties... The last twenty years have been sexually dry for both of us.[/quote]

Oh well...you have the OW...though I would've worked to find out WHY DW checked out-a question you haven't answered.

Wonder how long you and AP would be happy in a household together before she checks out too.

Hey! I'll bet AP's DH says the same about her (she checked out). Makes me wonder if your DW found someone too.[/quote]

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