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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being offensive wasn't at all where I was going, but if you personally are offended then I apologize. I don't know how else to describe it since he'd "come out of his shell" and then went back into it... I agree we both need to please each other, but I *do* please him. I've paid attention and learned what things he responds to most. Then I do those things for him and add in any other things I pick up on. It's not me not pleasing him, that's part of the issue - he's completely satisfied so he already has what he wants & needs, but I don't and therefore I'm not being pleased; I'm just doing all pleasing for him. There's no compromise or willingness anymore to at least meet in the middle. It doesn't have to be all the time, but at least sometimes would be nice. Especially since he was doing it before so I know he can. It's a matter of won't on his part, not can't. That's what makes it hard. He knows I need it, but he keeps withholding b/c it's not his need. If I'm meeting his, then it's only fair that he makes an effort to meet mine. I don't think that's unreasonable...[/quote]

Not PP but sounds like you think you are pleasing him by reading his sexual behavior, not that you are pleasing him by behaving the way he says he wants you to behave.[/quote]

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