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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish we could fast forward a generation and watch you being treated this way by your children's spouses. In laws deserve NO respect, right? Remember that when your son says, "sorry Mom, DW wants nothing to do with you, so please don't bother us. You're not a human being deserving of respect, understanding or love now that I'm married. Karma's a bitch that way."[/quote] You get what you deserve. My MIL told us DILs that she would not be babysitting. Fast forward twenty years and she's asking us and the kids to run errands for her. We're not enthused. Yes, karma's a bitch that way. [/quote] +1 You get what you give [/quote] My father taught me to work hard, make my own money, and save for when I am older so I can care for myself or pay for my own care... like he and my mom did. I am not there to "cover your expenses" because you wanted to live off the dole your whole life, not work, not save, spend all your money. Besides I don't think anybody really knows how violent a person with dementia can get. A person with dementia needs to be cared for by qualified staff. I do not want to be a burden to my children and scary to my grandchildren. Karma... yes it is karma that I have enough to care for myself in my old age. I don't get why women think they are free to live off the dole their whole lives.[/quote]
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