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[quote=Anonymous]OP you are selfish and need to do some hard-core internal work.  You took a vow and you don't get to just walk because you are bored.

I am separated from my soon to be ex H (after 16 ys) because it became a high-conflict, toxic situation that was unhealthy for me and our kids.  He left us out once for a couple of months, has had bouts of unemployment, and I had to call the cops on him once because he was so out of control.  He has dx'd depression, adhd and lord knows what else.  We've been in counseling, but he always quits when it gets tough.  I've worked on my own issues, and feel like I've worked my ass off trying to make this marriage work.

My point being that the scenario you are describing is a ridiculous reason to implode a family.  I'm getting a divorce because it is the healthiest solution and the only way to mitigate the damage to myself any my kids.  A marriage to an emotionally abusive and unhealthy spouse is light years away from "I want more passion in my life, I deserve that".  You need to think about what your DD deserves.  If you and your DH are going through a rough patch, go get some therapy.  And get some individual therapy while you are at it.  You seem to have NO idea what an adult relationship entails, and what marriage means.  Learn it and do it.  [/quote]

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