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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry but all I can say at this point is use the "golden rule" and do unto others.  Say you were deeply in love with your spouse and he had an affair and wasn't sure he was ever really in love with you and instead picked you as the safe choice because he felt he should settle down and wanted a kid how would you want him to handle this?  Would you agree if this was done to you it would be pretty sh^^ty because I'm sorry from where I am standing I think it is.  Would you want him to stay with you always thinking there was someone/something better, I think not because it would be a matter of if not of when he would cheat again or end up leaving you or making things so unbearable that you would want to leave. So at this point the question would be how would you want him to break the news to you in such a way that you could  be cordial and continue to co-parent and he fully accepted the responsibility for his actions and didn't try to make excuses.

So anyway, it doesn't sound like you have any interest in continuing the marriage and it sounds like your husband could likely find someone that would love him the way he should be loved.   I don't see any question here other than how to go about it in a way that would would hurt him the least knowing there is no way to avoid hurting someone that hasn't been anything other than great to you.
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