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[quote=Anonymous]OP, thank you for being honest. W/yourself. Who really cares if anyone on here judges or berates you? None of us on here is perfect + honestly, we ALL have made mistakes in the name of love thus we ALL have our own crosses to bear as well.

I say, as long as you remain married to this man, you will always be selling yourself short in life. Sure, you were very vulnerable when you married him and I totally get the whole "comfort" thing regarding why you stayed w/him. However, you shouldn't punish yourself for the rest of your life just over one mistake.

I understand you have a child together, but that shouldn't keep you from living the life you deserve to live.

What you are craving is passion and yes, after awhile marriages tend to lose some of this, but your marriage never had it to begin w/.

Your husband does not sound like a bad man, he just doesn't sound like the right man for YOU. And no amount of counseling will magically make you fall helplessly in love w/him. I don't know any therapists who can sprinkle "Fairy Dust" unto people to make that magic happen.

Life is too short to settle for 2nd best OP.
You need to live life to its fullest extent and only you know the best way to start.

GL.[/quote]

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