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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So is it impossible to maintain formerly active sx life once kids are here??[/quote]

A lot of people have chimed in 3, 4, 5xs a week. What exactly do you consider active? [/quote]

I'm talking about people who were 3-5x a week pre kids and are now once a month etc[/quote]

You used the word impossible. Clearly it's not impossible. Just impossible for you to focus on the people who are having sex.[/quote]

What an unnecessarily aggressive response. The PP dialed back the "impossible" and clarified his concern. Then you vomited out that unhelpful observation.

To the PP who was asking about pre-kid / post-kid. It's all over the map in terms of how active pre-kid sex lives respond to kids. There are plenty of people who still keep it up and plenty of people who find their sex lives drop off a cliff. Thing is that it takes both spouses being on board to have an active sex life and either one of them effectively has veto power enabling them to wreck the sex life.

Some find that sex never takes a hit. Some find there is a lull during pregnancy and/or nursing and early infancy but then the sex mostly (but maybe not entirely) bounces back. Some find that patiently waiting for things to bounce back doesn't work. In terms of distribution, I have no idea. From reading these boards, I get the sense that the "never take a hit" crowd is the smallest followed by the sexless marriage crowd with the "bounces back" crowd being the largest. [/quote]

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