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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you shouldn't be sharing with her, complaining to her, whatever you are doing.

Something has prompted this

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OP here.  Wish I could remember what prompted her to say that, but I do not.  Our conversation is always innocuous, I know better than to say anything of substance to her.  I was so stunned (she said this in the presence of my husband) I turned to my DD (who isn't even two) and said sorry girl, you are not perfect but you will always be good enough for mom!

I think her "perfect" comment stems from the comment she has made since our DD was born.  She makes it a point to tell
ME each time she visits how wonderful it is her son is so involved with DD.  I have tried to handle this in various ways, but she loves to repeat it.  I know my husband is a wonderful person (I married him!) but sorry, co-parenting isn't an above and beyond behavior.  [/quote]

OP sorry but you sound like a 3 year old in making such a big deal of a fairly innocuous phrase. my ILs have been married more than 50 years and still love each other very much, and my FIL has always be a hard worker and good provider for the family. but they had a very traditional marriage, where he was the one working a job, mowing the grass and fixing things around the house, and she was the one raising the three kids, cleaning and taking care of the home. my FIL still says proudly that he has never changed a diaper in his life. my DH is very involved with our kids, I always worked longer hours and he was the one dropping off and picking up from daycare, and we shares all chores, cleaning, cooking and taking care of the kids. you can bet that my MIL think her son is perfect, she probably wishes she had some help from her husband when their kids were little, but those were different times, not many men were doing household chores and taking care of kids. you should grow up. and frankly telling a toddler that she will always be "good enough" for you does not sound very nice [/quote]

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