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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your wife takes you for granted, OP. She's bored & you're not a priority. Some PP said, "try talking to her." It's worth a shot, but, "you take me for granted. You're bored and I'm not a priority to you." isn't going to make her interested in you. Most likely, she'll give you a list of things she wants you to do to make her life easier. Then, when you do those things, she still won't want to have sex with her, because you aren't entitled to sex. Sex isn't something you trade for or earn.

If you gave her a corresponding list of things she could do for you to make your life easier, think she'd do them? Or do you think she'd laugh at you for making the suggestion?

But those women who were flirting with you would get bored too, sooner or later. Only solution is to move from one to the next or accept sexlessness for the rest of your life. [/quote]

*sigh*

This would be a big communication fail. Did you never at least learn the basics of an "I feel" statement? Not to mention that presuming you know the answer is never a productive way to start a conversation. Try something more like, "It seems like we hardly ever have sex anymore, and I miss it. I feel disconnected from you, and I miss the way we used to be together." Edit this to be emotionally honest, but try to remember you're talking to someone you presumably care about. See what her answer is and respond to that, not to the dialogue you've written in your head. Find out what she thinks she needs, and consider whether you're willing to give her that. If you're not willing to work with her, or you do but you don't see her making an effort in turn, then at least you know where your marriage stands.[/quote]

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