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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Problem is, there is some REASON your wife is not finding you so attractive right now, even if you are physically super-hot.

Whatever reason it is, I'm guessing it has nothing to do with hotness and everything to do with something that is going on in your relationship and/or physical issues for your wife.

If your wife does not feel as well, or want sex as much, and she feels like her body has changed--she will want to go to the doctor. She may need some sympathy.

If she is just angry or disgusted with you right now over some issue with your marriage, it is up to both of you to talk about it.

Random women can find guys physically hot and want to sleep with them, but the women have no emotional history with the guy and might never want or need to see them again.

If your wife is angry with you, "revving her engine" by flirting may just lead to divorce court, rather than to the doctor or to counseling. Maybe it would work with some women?

A story: a super-hot ex-boyfriend tried "revving my engine" by calling me and telling me how many women were hitting on him when he was deployed in the military. He was already on thin ice and wouldn't listen to my concerns at all. So, I hung up on him and never spoke to him again. 20 years ago. I've been happily married and having sex with my emotionally mature but not-so-hot wonderful husband for 19 years :)

Hotness is not everything.[/quote]

The trick is not to flirt, but to have either attractive women or high-status males appear to hold you high-esteem. It could be in a totally non-sexual context.

If his wife saw him on-stage, playing in an awesome band, in front of enthusiastic, adoring, fans, she'd probably find him way more attractive.[/quote]

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