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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, it has to be an extremely high income or special situation.  My husbands ex was like you and expected my income to count even though she refused to provide her boyfriends income whom she left the marriage for.  Judge said no.  Took the older kids off child support, ordered her to pay more in travel costs for the youngest, and a lot more visitation.  They only used my income for tax purposes and given I put him in a higher tax bracket, it got slightly reduced for that.  You are not entitled to his wife income.  [/quote]

Are you in Virginia? Together they make close to 300K. I am single with just our child. 
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You are missing the point.  You are NOT entitled to the stepmother's income.  Your child is entitled to a portion of her father's income as child support.  It does not matter what state you are living in, it is your and the child's father's responsibility to provide for your child.  If you cannot afford to care for your child, talk to dad or give dad custody.  If you believe you are entitled to an increase based off of his income, then file.  Simple.  No judge is going to base it off of combined income.  If you want a joint income, get married.  [/quote]

+1000[/quote]

Look, leftover ladies. You married him. If you think he gets to increase his standard of living by leaving his child behind you are dumber than we thought. I already posted the guidance from california any other states? 
FYI for those of you just shacking - up that increase HHI as well. [/quote]

Do you live in California?  Very, very few states allow the courts to consider a step parents income in calculating child support.  Last I checked, Virginia was NOT one of them.

How in the hell do you rationalize taking another woman's money?  Get a damn job and take care of your kids.

And just as an aside - my DH's idiot ex-wife tried to get her hands on more money one too many times.  When my stepkids were 4 and 6, the judge gave my DH physical custody.  She got every other weekend and four weeks during the summer.  AND she got to write US a check every month.  You sound completely certifiable.  I would be careful about letting a judge see that.[/quote]

I would love to have this happen. I'm over the whole struggling thing. Let him and his newest love igure out how to pay daycare, food, and shelter... Ops that's right they don't want him. [/quote]

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