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[quote=Anonymous]OP - the different treatment of the other family is not beside the point.  It is offensive that he is will to pay for his wife's family to vacation with them but is not willing to pay for convenient flights to have you and your child travel a distance to take care of his children.  the fact that you previously ahve paid for flights to do them a favor is upsetting as well.

It is not as if they cannot afford the tickets.  The problem is that this is all about them and at an inconvenience to you when you are doing them a favor.

It would be a completely different thing if your sibling could not afford the tickets (and not because of the previously mentioned family vacation).  But it does not sound as if that is the case and this then This piles on a history of them choosing his wife's family over yours.

It sounds like they are trying to cloak it as them doing you a favor by spending the bookend weekends with you but the reality is that it is a big favor to them.  Unless they live in Maui, Venice,IT, or some equivalent destination I do not see how this is anything but a favor to them with the bonus of spending time together.

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