Reply to Would you ever file a restraining order against your own mother?

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "Would you ever file a restraining order against your own mother?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]Yikes, how did your mother get your boss's cell phone number?

On point, I agree with PPs that a restraining order likely will not solve your problems. My crazy ex does this stuff now and then, sends poison pen letters to my work with lies to get my fired, posting weird shit on the internet about me, etc. (I haven't seen him in ten years and he still pulls this every few months.)

My lawyer said I could get a restraining order, but it would not help with him contacting third parties. Mostly, I ignore him now. I've met with my boss and legal at work and basically, they say that nothing he says relates to my work and they ignore the letters now. Apparently, after working with me for years, they recognize crazy when they read it.

I will say that, yes, I've lost some mutual friends over time no doubt due to something he said, but whatever. They obviously were not good friends to begin with.

The other thing I did was to lock down as much of my online footprint as I could. I have FB under another name and I block him. It isn't perfect, but it works well enough. The most important thing is to not engage.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics