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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It just kills me that I waited for no reason.  What was the point?[/quote]

Well, if you're conservative Catholic, I'm quite sure that you had many other reasons for waiting rather than avoiding STD's right? Focus on those.[/quote]

Sure.  But avoiding STD's and being able to become fully one with my husband were big ones.  And I can't yet accept the no one is dirty theology quite yet.

Any advice about dealing with the shame from friends?  When this first began I told a friend and she said "Wait, but I thought you waited.  Only &lt;promiscuous folks&gt; get that."  Clearly we know that's not true and we are no longer friends, but you get the idea.[/quote]

Shame from friends?

Why would you even discuss this with them?  This is a private matter.  And if you are advertising it, I'd be PISSED if I were your husband.[/quote]

Because I was upset.....

I only told the one but a few are questioning why I'm [i]always [/i]at the doctor.  It's hard to hide that something's wrong.[/quote]

I don't really understand your health issues but HPV isn't going to keep you at the doctor that often correct?  It is going to be the other issue you are dealing with?

If I am correct....then tell them it is because of an issue you are dealing with.  They don't need to know details.  If a friend told me this when I asked, I would leave it alone.

Just like when my ex and I split......everyone asks why.  I tell them "Things didn't work out unfortunately"...and leave it at that.  They don't need to know who said/did what.  That is none of their business.[/quote]

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