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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay you are extremely naïve to say I like her as a person I just don't trust her with money if a person is untrustworthy they are untrustworthy, PERIOD. It's  not situational it's not circumstantial it's character. To be honest, I probably wouldn't bring it up to her I just know she's untrustworthy and that's how I deal with her from now on
I've known a few pathological liars in my life, and one thing I've learned is that it's a waste of your time energy and emotions to try to get the truth out of someone who does not know what truth is.[/quote]

I don't think I am naive. I would trust her with most things but she is very greedy and money hungry.  
I can talk to her for hours about other things. If I needed help with anything (moving, anything kid related). She would be the first one there.
She has never lied about anything to me, besides money. With regards to money, she will lie, cheat and steal.
She used to be a frequent shoplifter.

Thanks for the advice. I will give some thought to what you said.[/quote]

I find this very interesting, to the point that I might do a spin-off post about this. Can someone be fundamentally good, a giving, loving friend, empathic and supportive and yet in one compartmentalized area have zero scruples and be willing to lie, cheat or steal, even from friends and family? I don't get it. I tend to think that the money issues reflect poor character in general (unless someone is in the throes of an untreated addiction, which can cause all kinds of unscrupulous behavior).[/quote]

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