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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay you are extremely naïve to say I like her as a person I just don't trust her with money if a person is untrustworthy they are untrustworthy, PERIOD. It's  not situational it's not circumstantial it's character. To be honest, I probably wouldn't bring it up to her I just know she's untrustworthy and that's how I deal with her from now on
I've known a few pathological liars in my life, and one thing I've learned is that it's a waste of your time energy and emotions to try to get the truth out of someone who does not know what truth is.[/quote]

+1 it's not just that she can't be trusted with money , it's that she has zero scruples and was willing to basically lie, cheat and steal to get what she wanted, without any thought to how it would impact you. So you can certainly have a relationship with her going forward, but you can't trust her and this will obviously affect how you deal with her going forward. Not sure if it's even worth having a heart-to-heart over, because this goes beyond "you hurt my feelings" or "I feel like you don't have my best interests at heart". This boils down to her character, or lack thereof. I suppose if she had been desperate and in dire straits due to her life circumstances then maybe I would be able to understand her actions a bit more but I would never trust her again.[/quote]

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