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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you've been married for awhile, maybe more than 7 years and have kids, do you generally feel like your husband desires you?  Like, you feel attractive and wanted?  If so, how does he show it?

I'm just wondering what it's like.  [/quote]

Does your husband know what makes you feel like he desires you?

For example, the PP whose husband is constantly groping her and talking dirty, but she wants him to say she's gorgeous. He may think he's doing something that makes her feel good and tells her how much he desires her. She wants something else.[/quote]

I have a bit of this problem in my marriage (DH here).  My wife does not feel very attractive; she's cute, but has always struggled with weight and still does; she's a little plump.  I find her attractive and I try to do things to show how excited I am, but many of them (feeling up her ass, or groping a boob) are really hated.  In fact, the only thing she likes is holding her face in my hands and kissing her.  Which is nice...but it's because she feels so unhappy about her body that any other touches kind of remind her of that.  She'd prefer to get under the sheets, lay back and for me to just appear, ready to go, and do everything.  I have a hard time getting aroused when I'm constantly worried I'm touching the wrong place.  For example: I love boobs/nipples, but she doesn't like her nipples being touched!

Ugh.  Suggestions?  [/quote]

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