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They are being INCREDIBLY rude, and if your husband cannot see that, you're in a tough spot.

Your husband should tell his parents that unless they can use a common tongue when you are all together, then no more get-togethers (he can drop by to say hi every once in a while, ans speak Cantonese with them, but when you're there, you all use a common language).

It's all about your husband recognizing that his priority and his nuclear family is you and the kids, not his parents anymore.

Good luck![/quote]

Ha - ha! You have no understanding of an Asian family dynamics. Your suggestion is destructive to the family. I can bet that your race, culture and the state of your marriage is no way like the OPs.[/quote]

Yeah I was going to say the same -- Asian men are not known for standing up for their family against mommy and daddy.[/quote]

The first poster in a later post identified as Asian so does understand. I am as well and still would in no way let my inlaws disrespect me like that. [/quote]

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