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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]BTW, I posted the above on kindness.   I feel that in many ways I married the wrong guy particularly on this point.  It's more that he completely lacks empathy in pretty much any situation, is flummoxed by emotions (mine, the kids, in a movie), and has a hard time connecting on that level.   He also is pretty self minded (I can't get up with the crying baby even though you haven't slept in months as I have to go to work), you get the picture.

I saw it before we married, so shame on me.   I am very sensitive, probably overly so, very empathetic so it is a hard match sometimes, but we try to approach it as learning from each other.   I love many things about him, but this has been a hard area for us.   [/quote]

+1,000

I could have written this post.

My DH has never cheated, is a good financial provider, is good looking and great in bed. But he's an asshole. He's just not kind and I don't think he even has the capacity to be or knows what it means to be kind. He's just not nice. Like PP's DH, he doesn't even comprehend kindness in others. I saw glimpses of it before marriage, but it's gotten so much worse.

I would trade everything I have to be with a kind man. [/quote]

I have a kind man. But he's lazy and not so great in bed.  You can't have it all.[/quote]

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