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OP here.  Maybe I am being selfish. I am okay with that. I think personal happiness and satisfaction are things we are entitled to be selfish about.  No one marries a perfect person (my husband included).  But, there is a time when you believe you can deal with other person's faults (and they with yours) and still have the happy times outweigh the non-happy times.  But, things can change.  I knew that going in. So did he, I am sure.  Today the scales are tipped in favor of ending it.  Who knows what tomorrow holds? [/quote]

Who cares if he's incapable of being vulnerable?[/quote]

me?  [/quote]

1) What does that even mean? Are you a 20 something dating?

2) What do you accomplish from it?[/quote]

A lack of vulnerabilty is the best way I can describe the attitude. It is a complete and total lack of wanting or needing any support from me.  I can say, "wow, this dinner is great.  thank you!" and the response is, "you're damn right it's good!"  I find it so hard to cite specific instances - it's hard to do when the reason you're unhappy is not because you've been beaten or cheated on.  I am not particularly high maintenance.  but, I need to be needed. that's me.  In response to a compliment, I need to hear, "thank you. I apprecaiate that"  just once every so often.  It's just the general everyday kindness - there is none.  It's a plethora of snide bullshit.  It wears one down. [/quote]

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