Reply to My wife does not want to have sex because the baby.....

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "My wife does not want to have sex because the baby....."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm shocked. Am I the only female that couldn't, and didn't, wait the standard 6 weeks to have sex? [/quote]

I waited exactly the 6 weeks, after I got clearance from my doctor.  I don't get all these wives who selfishly bail on the marriage once they have a kid. [/quote]

Bc oftentimes it isn't for selfish reasons. It's hormones, it's feeling touched-out having a baby on you (and your boob) all day, it's being exhausted, it's having a birth-related injury that needs to heal, it's feeling self-conscious from the body changes of pregnancy and childbirth, it's &lt;gasp&gt; other women having many experiences that differ from your own that also feel equally valid. Congrats on wanting to get right back to it -- glad that happened for you -- but don't knock other women by calling them selfish bc they have a harder road returning to their former drive. [/quote]

+1. What an unbelievably immature response.[/quote]

+2. This is not about being selfish. Everything PP listed above applied to me. My wonderful DH was very supportive and patient. I did get my groove back, but it took a while. I was frustrated for both our sakes at how long it took, but DH was great. He did lots of sensual, not sexual things (back/neck stroking, etc.) and when I was slightly less sleep deprived, I was happy to give BJs to DH when I didn't feel like my body was up for it.
We made it through and things are great now.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics