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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents are exactly the same.  My mom was a sahm, so I thought she would delight in her grandkids.  When we first moved to this area, I insisted we live in Arlington rather than DC so we wouldn't unnecessarily add 20 minutes to their trip (thinking they would make v frequent visits from NC).  Instead, we see them twice a year.  I really had to go through a grieving process - writing a goodbye letter to the mom I thought I knew/had (at the suggestion of a therapist).  It helped temporarily, but it has taken years to accept (my oldest is 12).  I'm still disappointed, but I have learned to accept the new reality for the most part and try to enjoy the time I have with them regardless.  My sister and I commiserate/joke about it b/c they are the same way with my nephew.  Interestingly, like a pp, I think my mom is now an alcoholic and that might have something to do with her lack of interest.  [/quote]

You are probably right. My MIL is an alcoholic and it has taken over her life. It is hard to do anything else when you get the shakes at 9am while your body waits for it's 5pm drink. [/quote]

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